I don’t know about you, but I tend to hold onto things whether they are significant or not. I think I hold onto the things that bother me or irritate me the most, or things that I know deep down I have absolutely no control over. Do I know why I do this? No, I have no idea. It has always been something I would do…and it literally would tear me down so fast. Meeting my husband 10 years ago he has continuously told me to just let things go that don’t matter. Here I am still working at that. It is honestly one of the hardest things to do and to overcome since I have literally been doing this my whole life. Something so small or big will get to me and I will sit there and stew about it, and it does nothing but put negativity into my mind/life. I can’t say I am 100% over it, but I have been so much better at it lately and I can feel it in every inch of my body. It seriously does wonders when I can let things go and not worry about something I can’t control. I will vent about it and let it go. Where in the past I couldn’t just let go of it. In life you will come across something or someone that/who will get under your skin whether it/they know it and things will sit there and eat at you until you just let it go. Living by letting go of things you can’t control is so much better. I feel like I have become a better mom, wife, and better off mentally and physically. Think about it, why sit there and stew about something and bring negativity into your life along with your husband and family’s life when at the bottom line it doesn’t matter. Move on, let it go, be better.
Hey It's Abbey! 